Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Bringin' them up


Everyone knows "what" is wrong with the world and its people, but if you have little children in your home, how they're being brought up every minute, every day, you'd see more clearly of "why", "how" and "when" it starts. 0-3 years is mostly the age of "whats". And that's where the screwing up starts. It's because people feed all kinds of bullshit to their minds in the name of "whats". So don't do that. Do this instead:-

Feed your children only the facts. Tell them what *is* and not what *you* think it is. When you don't know what it is, tell them you don't know or are not sure what it is and then try to find an answer and be sure. Whatever you do, just don't push your *beliefs and opinions* down their little throats. If you can't find the answer, help them keep the question alive, maybe one day they will find it on their own. Let them find the answers of questions you don't know of, let them build their own knowledge-base based on facts and not on your deeply ingrained whims and fantasies (by your parents); let them form their own opinions and ideas overtime instead of trying your best to hard-code your own into their vulnerable little brains.

Break the cycle of centuries of conditioning and let them get on the path of being the BS-free human beings (superhuman even) they have the potential to become.